Oliver Nassar

The juxtaposition of memorable moments

February 10, 2013

"Go outside."
"Make every day count."
"You only live once."

I've recited these allegories often myself. They're part of my conciousness, and I try to remind myself of them from time to time. But all-the-same, there is something frustrating about them, especially when brought up by someone else: When Years Passed, Will You Remember Today?

There is a line within that post:

Imagine if you are going to record the best moment of today, what would it be? Would you rather record yourself in front of a computer or yourself walking outside experiencing life?

I don't remember all the time I've sat inside, nor all the time spent alone, upset, frustrated, shoveling snow, running away from bees, or watching television. When I look back, at the ripe age of 27, those events don't come to mind.

But I firmly believe those events are required.

I have many memories I look back upon and smile. Conversations I am thankful to have been able to have, at the right time, with the right person. I believe contrasting what one would like to look back upon, versus the often mundane things required in a persons life, is not a fair comparison.

Rather, I choose to compare the breadth of my experiences against the breadth I imagined for myself in the past. So long as the former continuously exceeds the latter, I'm moving in a direction that I'm proud of.

Dare to experience a life you can't imagine.